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    ForPeace4

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  • Member Since:

    May 16, 2006

  • Real Name::

    Jacqueline H

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    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Age:

    53

  • Relationship Status:

    Involved/Partner

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Primary Job:

    Healthcare - Social Services/Mental Health

  • Location:

    Richmond, VA

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Libra


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FRIENDSHIP TO ME



Friendship is something I take seriously !
through ups and downs
through thick and thin through the highs and lows

Friendship is something I treasure !!
I am strong in me, so that you can be
you?
When you are tired , I am there to renew
your strength?
When you succeed I am there to share in
your joy?

Friendship to me last a lifetime!!
it?s something I build?
it?s something I nurture?
it?s something I value?


Friendship is more than a word to me !!
it?s something I do?
it?s something I see?
it?s what I bring?.


Friendship is what you have of me !!



Jacqueline E. H.
3/20/2005



In this world i have realized that it's not how many friends you have but the quality of that friendship! So many people use the term so lightly..FRIEND ,yet have no idea of what it means...i wrote that poem in response to my friends both male and female that have been like family to me. Update 4/2/2007: I have also come to understand that in love we should seek friendship FIRST and the love will come, first you have to build the trust, respect, admiration and the honesty that comes with friendship...so when hard and tough times come and test the love and the relationship...it can stand the test of time. Right now i DO NOT WANT A MAN! I want my best friend...someone, i may be able to fall in love with...who knows?



? Where are we going ?

Where are we going?
What direction-
Which path ?

How can I see?
the road is foggy-
the days gloomy.
I don?t want to
FALL !

I have been on this journey
a long time?
many times I had to
STOP?
for getting lost.

Desiring a safe road
a place that would
welcome my SOUL
give comfort to
my heart
that
understands
my
SPIRIT.

I have come upon a new road
quite by accident- you see
I was so tired
that I stopped
traveling .I was contemplating my map-
confused
lost
lonely .

I stood still.

Searching my inner compass
finding my Barings.
Not clear in direction but?
knew which roads
not to take.

One day another traveler ran
into me.

He brought comfort
peace ,and
healing

To
MY
SOUL

Where are we going?



5/21/2005


I wrote this when i was unsure what i was feeling and why for a someone I loved . He was sending me conflicting signals, with his voice he'd say " we're just friends...yet with his eyes he'd say the complete opposite. He lead me on, had me on a string. I knew that i had to leave him alone...yet in life we all travel down the road of the unknown, the question is where are you going? Then you will know the who! Since then i have learned to read the whole package and listen to the voice, if a man is ready for me ...hei'll let ME know, for-sure. So now i am enjoying me and re-inventing myself.



....i know that i am not the only one to experience what i have...all i know that i am not into games but in finding out the truth and i am looking for my soul mate...in life we have several soul mates...but we don't realize it...i am on such a journey BUT- i want friendship FIRST-love takes time..and i don't have time for games. So those of u that R into booty calls and games..then keep going...i am deeper than that! I want the REAL DEAL! But i don't wear my heart on my sleeves! I am real and honest and to the point! The games are for kids. So if you are a REAL MAN, then you can apply for the position as my leading man, but only if you want the same thing as i do, then that woould be cool! .

 


UpDate 3/15/2007

Thank you for all the people that have stopped back and read my page...Thanks for all the people that have shown me LOVE. I am really not on the planet for anything BUT to meet nice people and share common interest. I am NOT looking for a man or a relationship, i am not interested in sex with a man or a woman. Right now i am focused on my personal goals and wish that some surfers on Black Planet would not mistake this for me wanting anything more than this...to enjoy myself and have a great time meeting new people. I do however wish all those who are on this site for that ...i wish them well! Sometimes this does work out well for some..if that is what u r into. I have other goals in mind. PEACE.



Up date 4/2/2007

So many people try so hard to impress another person, when all they had to be in the first place was themselves. Be open to the possiablities and don't doubt your heard, trust your instincts, follow nature...within nature i have learned to watch as observe and see valuable lessons! Ants : work hard and have build empires, they also work together and everyone knows their tasks. the butterfly: starts off ugly and small yet as she spins her cacoon she knows that change must come in order for her to GROW. A bird: soars the skies and rides the currents...its knows to go with the flow , Sloths: know when to move conserving energy. Salmon: swim against the odds to make it to where they have to go...nothing stops them, they fight all the way until they reach the place they were born to spawn.There are so many examples in nature God has given us if we take the time to watch. Enjoy the simple things. I find that these gives the most pleasure. Enjoy walking in the rain, watch a sunset, even the sun rise. listen to a child laugh...confort a friend who is crying. listen to a elderly person; hear their story. In life we can't go back...only forward.



When you learn who you are then you can truely share yourself with someone else...find someone who shares common intrests, find someone who you can stand to talk to every day. find your best friend.

 


P EACE PEOPLE

BROKEN MIRROR GLASS

I SEE ME IN A BROKEN MIRROR GLASS.

TINY FRAGMENTED IMAGES OF ME...

BEAUTY IS NOT WHAT I SEE...

MY SOUL DISTORTED.

BROKEN WAS MY MEMORY...

PIECES OF TIME FORGOTTEN BY IMAGES OF HATE

OFFERED NO KINDNESS

CHOOSING TO INFLICT lost INNOCENCE.

BROKEN WAS MY SELF-ESTEEM

WHEN ALL YOU SAW MY APPEARENCE-

FORGETTING MY SOUL NEEDS LOVE TOO...

BEAUTY IS NOT ME.

BROKEN WAS MY SPIRIT...

AS IT LAY YEAR AFTER YEAR

NEGLECTED BY EVERYONE WHO CHOOSES

TO BELIEVE THE FACADE OF MT STRENGTH

THAT STANDS IN MY POSTURE...

CAUSE DEEP INSIDE

MY SPIRIT LAY WOUNDED BY BEAUTY.

BROKEN IS MY BODY...

WHO'S IMAGE I HATE

EXTRA POUNDS GIVE SHELTER

FROM THIEVES WHO WANT TO TAKE

but

NOT GIVE BACK

NOT CARING THAT MIND AND BODY

ARE ONE.

BROKEN IS MY HEART ...

NEVER

REALLY HAS IT EXPERIENCED TRUE LOVE EROS.

THE LOVE A MAN HAS FOR A WOMAN...

NEVER EXPERIENCED LOVE AS GENTLE.

SUFFER THE LONGING TO BE LOVED FOR ME.

SO, I SEE MY SELF BROKEN

FRAGMENTED

I N A MIRROR GLASS

TINY IMAGES OF SELF

DISTORTED

BY THE SHARDS OF MY LIFE.

JACQUELINE E.H

4/30/2005

PUBLISHED BY AVERAGEGIRL MAGAZINE

OCT ISSUE2006

SOMETIMES

 

SOMETIMES WHEN PROBLEMS ARISE

NORMAL SEEMS LIKE AN ETERNITY...

ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS GET BACK TO THE SIMPLICITY...

SOMETIMES YOU TAKE FOR GRANTED

THE EVERYDAY THINGS REACHING FOR TOMORROW...

YES, WE SHOULD STRIVE FOR BETTER

BUT LET;S NOT LOSE SIGHT OF

WHAT'S IMPORTANT IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS

LIFE CAN'T DUPLICATE...

PRECIOUS TO ME ARE THOSE TIMES

I CAN REFLECT LIFE'S SIMPLE JACQUELINE E.H 4/06/2006

PUBLISHED BY ACES AMERICOPRS

QUOTES I LIKE

 

1. The way to gain a good reputation, is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear. -

Socrates

2. If we all did the things we are capable of,
we would astound ourselves.


Thomas Edison

3.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
Helen Keller

Action may not always bring happiness;
but there is no happiness without action
.
Benjamin Disraeli

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly.
Lanston Hughes

"Poverty often deprives a man of all spirit and virtue; it is hard for an empty bag to stand upright" Benjamin Franklin

"A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle." Kahlil Gibran

Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance." George Bernard Shaw

"Be strong and of good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." Joshua 1:9 The Bible

------------------------------ ------------------------------ -------------------- "

I believe that I shall see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage; be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord." Psalm 27: 13-14 The Bible

 

Without justice courage is weak." Benjamin Franklin

 

"Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." Alfred Lord Tennyson

"Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within." James Baldwin

"Phenomenal Woman"

Pretty woman wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to fit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
They swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's the arch of my back
The sun in my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenominal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing,
I ought to make you proud
I say,
It's the click of my heals,
The bend of my hair,
The need for my care.
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenominal woman,
That's me.

MAYA Angelou

"Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship - never." Charles Caleb Colton



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